Our first progress reports of the year came home on Friday, and you may be asking yourself, "OK, now what?" Whether your student came home with all A's and B's or maybe something indicating they are having a more difficult time, this early check is an opportunity to examine the direction your student is headed at this point in the year. Here are some tips for where you can go from here, especially if you're seeing them struggle with some new academic challenges:
Communicate and Collaborate with Your Child
1. Listen, Don't Judge: Create a safe, open space for your child to express their feelings and concerns about the report without judgement - if your student is afraid of letting you down, they will have a hard time talking about their areas of concern.
2. Acknowledge Strengths First: Start the conversation by highlighting what your child did well, showed improvement, or worked diligently on to build a positive foundation.
3. Address Weaknesses Constructively: Focus on the areas where they struggled, framing it as an opportunity for learning and growth rather than a failure.
4. Set Goals Together: Work with your child to set specific, achievable goals for improvement and develop a plan to reach them.
Partner with the Teacher
1. Contact the Teacher: If you feel your student is lost or underperforming, schedule a meeting or phone call with your child's teacher to discuss the report and get their perspective on how to support their academic progress. **Pro Tip - don't rely on email conversations with your child's teacher - we (all of us) frequently misread tone or make incorrect inferences in when reading others' written words - talk face to face, through Teams or Zoom, or over the phone to avoid losing understanding that comes from direct human contact.
2. Prepare for the Conversation: Go into the parent-teacher meeting with specific questions and potential solutions to facilitate a productive discussion about how you and the school can work together.
3. Discuss Support Options: Explore options like tutoring, extra help sessions, or adjusted homework routines to help your child overcome academic challenges.